Be present

Practicing estate planning law, I have to walk my clients through some hard and sad scenarios: contemplating their death or incapacity, planning the future in a way that avoids family conflicts, making sure their values and principles are conveyed to future generations. Add to this the all present, daily hardships in life and you can see how it becomes really easy to loose focus on the “here and now” and become overwhelmed with worries.

It takes intentionality, discipline, and sometimes gentle reminders to pay attention to the present.

The picture above was taken this summer and it’s a rare moment of our young son sitting still and enjoying a witty conversation with my wife. This is how character is built in little kids; moments like these reinforce in the child that he/she is loved and important.

It may not always be easy or convenient, but I’m reminded of the importance of sitting still, being present and attentive to your child or loved ones.